This is a story that teaches us not to take anything at “face” value. Look deeply and show a little kindness to all you meet. The narrator narrates:
Our house was directly across the street from the clinic entrance of John Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore. We lived downstairs and rented the upstairs rooms out to patients at the clinic.
One summer evening as I was fixing supper, there was a knock at the door. I opened it to see a truly awful looking man. “Why, he’s hardly taller than my eight-year old,” I thought as I stared at the stooped shriveled body. But the appealing thing was his face – lopsided from swelling, red and raw. Yet his voice was pleasant as he said, “Good evening. I’ve come to see if you’ve a room for just one night. I came from the eastern shore and there is no bus till morning.”
He told me he had been hunting for a room since noon but no success, no one seemed to have a room, “I guess it’s my face…I know it looks terrible, but the doctor says with a few more treatments…
For a moment I hesitated, but his next words convinced me; “I could sleep on the rocking chair on the porch. My bus leaves early in the morning.”
I told him that I would find him a bed, but to rest on the porch. I went inside and finished getting supper. When we were ready, I asked the old man if he would join us. “No thank you, I have plenty.” And he held up a brown paper bag. When I finished the dishes, I went out on the porch to talk with him a few minutes. It didn’t take a long time to see that this old man had an oversized heart crowded into that tiny body. He told me that he fished for a living to support his daughter, her five children and her husband, who was hopelessly crippled from a back injury.
He didn’t tell it by a way of complaint; in fact, every other sentence was preface with thanks to God for a blessing. He was grateful that no pain accompanied his disease, which was apparently a form of skin cancer. He thanked God for the strength to keep going. At bedtime, we put a camp cot in the children’s room for him. When I got up in the morning, the bed linens were neatly folded and the little man was out on the porch.
He refused breakfast, but just before he left for his bus, haltingly, as if asking a great favor, he said “could I please come back and stay next time I have treatment? I won’t put you out a bit; I will sleep fine in a chair.” He paused a moment and then added, “your children made me feel at home. Grown-ups are bothered by my face but children don’t seem to mind.” I told him he was welcome to come again. On his next trip he arrived a little after seven in the morning. As a gift, he brought a big fish and a quart of oysters I had ever seen. He said he had shucked them that morning before he left so they would be nice and fresh. I knew his bus left at 4:00am and I wondered what time he had to get up in order to do this for us.
In the year he came to stay overnight with us there was never a time that he did not bring us fish or oysters or vegetables from his garden. Other times we received packages in the mail, always by special delivery; fish and oysters packed in a box of fresh spinach or kale, every leaf carefully washed. Knowing that he must walk three miles to mail these, and knowing how little money he had made the gifts doubly precious. When I received these little remembrances, I often thought of a comment our next-door neighbor made after he left that first morning.”Did you keep that awful-looking man last night? I turned him away! You lose roomers by putting up with such people!” maybe we did lose roomers once or twice, but oh! If only they could have known him, perhaps their illnesses would have been easier to bear.
I know our family will always be grateful to have known him; from him we have learned what it was to accept the bad without complaint and the good with gratitude to God. Recently I was visiting e friend who had a greenhouse. As she showed me her flowers, we came to the most beautiful one of all, a golden chrysanthemum, bursting into blooms. But to my surprise, it was growing in an old dented, rusty bucket. I thought to myself, “if this were my plant, I’d put it in the loveliest container I had!”
My friend changed my mind. “I ran short of pots” she exclaimed, “and knowing how beautiful this one would be, I thought it wouldn’t mind starting out in this old pail. It’s just for a little while, till I can put it out in the garden.” She must have wondered why I laughed so delightedly, but I was imagining one scene in heaven. “Here’s an especially beautiful one,” God might have said that when he came to the soul of sweet old fisherman. “He won’t mind starting in this small body. All this happened a long time ago. The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.
Joke
A friend was in front of me coming out of church one day and the preacher was standing at the door as he always is to shake hands. He grabbed my friend and pulled him said aside to him, “you need to join the army of the Lord!
My friend replied, “I’m already in the Army of the Lord.
Pastor questioned, “how come I don’t see you around except at Christmas and Easter?”
He whispered back, “I’m in the secret service